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ellariasand posted an update in the group Sex & Music 12 years, 4 months ago

So, it looks like my Bicycle Experiment has reached its conclusion. The short version is I developed feelings (mostly of the mad, green-eyed possessive sort), he… didn’t.

Fortunately, I have the knowledge that I could walk into any bar in town and probably find a suitable replacement and the music of Tom Waits.

Mallory replied 12 years, 4 months ago

Big hug!
Mr. X replied 12 years, 4 months ago

Big kiss. You’re out there living it, and that’s everything. Probably still hurts now, bit I saw a quote today: “Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.”
- ellariasand replied 12 years, 4 months ago
  
  Thanks, Mallory and Mr. X. If anything, I’ve learned how to be more impulsive and forthcoming in taking what I want. Also, I’d rather have it out now than wait it out three months to find out that he hadn’t invested as much emotionally in our arrangement as I had.
  
  I guess I shouldn’t mistake tenderness in private for actual intimacy, considering…[Read more]
  - Mallory replied 12 years, 4 months ago
    
    I completely agree with you.
    
    Get out there. Take what you want. And always expect more.

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