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  • lake posted an update 12 years, 11 months ago

    Alright, I want to borrow from your collective imaginations.
    Let’s say you are owned, you are married, and you are interviewing a male submissive because your Master is interested in exploring some of the ‘opportunities’ that such a person might offer for your play and exploration. You have never had a male submissive before.

    1. In order to ge…[Read more]

    • I know next to nothing on this subject but I can comment on how to get to know someone better. I have a few suggestions for starting points in the following order.
      1. Have him respond in writing to the questions of “What draws you to being a submissive and what is in it for you.” You are here like many of us on SE because you care about the…[Read more]

      • Food for thought indeed. Thank you Mallory, number 4 makes me wish it was time to head out the door right now!

    • Just for clarity is this for YOU, or for your Master, or Both? I actually like all of Mallory’s suggestions, but regardless of the setting, #1 and #3 strike me as the most relevant parts.

      If you are both going into this knowing what your dynamic is going to be – or it sounds like in this instance NEEDS to be if you are going to be satisfying…[Read more]

      • That is more than helpful. It actually causes me to ‘re-think’ more than a few things.

        I like to connect, and my instinct is to just do whatever is needed to get everyone there. For example if I’ve given 40% and someone else has given 40%, I am quick to give the extra 20% and never look back just to close the gap. This is not a bad thing, but…[Read more]

        • It is much more difficult to assess “tending to,” which for me, is based on an underlying spirit of generosity. When I tend to my lover’s desire and pleasure, I feel like I would do anything to achieve them. Do anything, give anything, be anything. And I do so with my own hands, both of them, with self awareness of value, and anticipation of his…[Read more]

          • Well said Mallory! I appreciate all of your more aggressive/assertive/alternative/provocative thoughts and expressions equally well, but it is knowing that at your core you possess both the capacity, the knowledge and the will to become THIS person – that all of your willingness to pursue any and all avenues of sexual expression are based on THIS…[Read more]

        • I think that you understood my points (and Mallory’s) quite well, what I want to make sure that I followed up on was the notion that you do NOT have to be some cold heartless, relentlessly selfish bitch – some porn version of a dominatrix constantly belittling and humiliating her slave for seemingly pointless reasons. To me it always feels like…[Read more]

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    • Your not going to stop there now are you? 😉

    • Ha! You caught me I am shy about that… Perhaps we need a week where everyone has to show or share something they never have here before.

      and oh yes, I MUST know 😉

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  • lake posted an update 12 years, 11 months ago

    “All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed.
    For after all, he was only human. He wasn’t a dog.” ― Charles M. Schulz

  • Men’s Lust. Folks any doubt about your selection?

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  • CYA – Ass, Beads, Hand unseen

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 12 years, 11 months ago

    My Belated xoxoxox’s

  • I had the hardest time deciding which picture this week, went back and forth all week and ended up here… CYA – Skin, Legs, Shadows
    [bpfb_i…

  • I\’m thinking we need some stakes for CYA… so I have a potential Valentine\’s Day challenge. After voting the week of Valentine\’s Day (s…

  • Found this among my \”collection\” and thought it worthy of sharing…

    This is an image that I can really relate to! And by that I mean th…

  • lake posted an update 12 years, 11 months ago

    No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other\’s worth. ~Robert Southey

  • lake posted an update 12 years, 11 months ago

    Welcome @alex, read your profile and look forward to hearing more from you.

    • Just jump in if you read something you like. I think people appreciate knowing someone has enjoyed or reacted to a story, comment, or photo. It’s also fun to get other perspectives or thoughts, and sometimes these spark whole new conversations, stories, or just a vivid fantasy or two 🙂

      Have fun with it!

      For example, there was a story I…[Read more]

      • Oh.. and of course if you have a story or fantasy or just something you want to say… “Your Fantasies” and “Your Experiments” groups are good place to post!

  • Then think of me touching you the second you read this….because I swear to god I can reach through the atmosphere and feel every last ridg…

  • lake posted an update 12 years, 11 months ago

    Then think of me touching you the second you read this….because I swear to god I can reach through the atmosphere and feel every last ridge and vein of your body and every last firing of your neurons and every last pulse of your souls energy flowing through me, on me, around me in this moment…let yourself go…let yourself cum right there as…[Read more]

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