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Alix James posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 11 years, 4 months ago
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 5 months ago@ Barrister has yet again inspired me to think more broadly than normal with one of his posts! In reading though his and many other fantasies and experiments on this site, I am reminded just how grounded we often are in our fantasies…about how we pass most of our interests and arousals and wants and desires through SOME filter which reflects…[Read more]
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Okay so I’m freak, but do try to also remember that you love me when you read this. Plus it’s not totally my fault, James did ask for a fantasy that is ‘out there’.
So slight preamble. I believe at our core we are all light, love, and energy… infinite capacity without bounds and connected to everything. That upon that we are layer upon laye…[Read more]
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Wow, I am speechless.
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Speechless… Good?? Don’t worry about me, I’m actually far better adjusted than I sound 😉
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Wow…speechless is right!
I knew there was always something about you I really, really likes ms. lake.
Well said…all of it!
-James
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Me likes you plenty too James.
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If you walk up to a woman that you’ve been making eye contact with in a bar, simply take her hand and walk to the dance floor, slither against each other and under each other’s clothes for an hour, then take her hand again, walk her this time to the bathroom where you fuck her, and all of that without ever saying more than two words to each…[Read more]
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Uh, hell, yeah.
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I probably should not feel proud of myself for that, but damn it, now I do 🙂
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Yes, this is a perfect example of said “zipless fuck”. So now I am more in awe than ever of the daring, sexy, make-it-happen in her life ms. lake!!!
-James
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I can’t let you be too impressed, in the mid 90,s there was the most fortunate trend in NYC… and straight girls were flocking to the lesbian bars in droves in order to get their ‘girl on girl’ badges. I don’t think I slept with a female that actually was gay for almost a year. I still can’t look at the leather vest I used to wear in those…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 11 years, 5 months agoSince there had been a number of “threesome” conversations (or was it conversations about threesomes…) I thought I would share a photo (which sadly is not my own)…which might inspire more conversations (or at least thoughts about threesomes!). Enjoy
-James
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Flesh, flesh, and more lovely flesh.
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Hmmm…it is a hot picture, but you are so right it is the story behind it that really conjures the fantasy material, isn’t it?!?
When I posted it I was imagining that the woman standing there was the wife/girlfriend/partner of the man and that the woman on the bed was the ”third”…
But your comments made me want to consider all of the possibili…[Read more]-
Mistress dressed, brought home this man, unknown to her pet, who is now being fucked by him.
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Ohhh! I like this!!
Its giving me a few ideas. Dominants can always learn from one another…and the submissive is usually no worse for wear either!
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They are shooting a porn movie, the woman dressed is in the next scene. This is one of her first movies.
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Maybe she is in her 40’s…just got out of a long term relationship and is looking to really live out all of her longest held fantasies
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Wife dressed, has made a bet with her husband who thinks she is frigid. He has to make this girl cum to win the bet.
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They are sex toy inventors and they are experimenting with a new product.
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I haven’t been watching “Masters of Sex” on Showtime but I could definitely be a product tester for sex toys…any volunteers?!?
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Hmmm… Which toy line are we talking Sir?
I crack myself up… as if anyone believes I’d be picky when it comes to you James…
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Oh my, YES THAT ONE!! Va va va vroooom
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What I am loving most about your contributions @Barrister is that you can transition from lovely expressions of how you feel about the Mrs…to stories about how have found such wonderful ways to relate on such a passionate level…to how you are pushing and experimenting with those boundaries…al the way to this which is clearly in the “fantasy”…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 11 years, 5 months agoNot as revealing…not as conceptual…and not as high a quality as I am accustomed to sharing, but this has a quality far and away better than almost all the others…IT IS REAL!!!
Thats, right…a real shot…a real woman…a real car…a real street in New York City (an avenue actually)…and taken by ME!
So what is this? Well…it is obviously a woman…[Read more]
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You are out of control, James. I hope she is ready for you tomorrow.
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Sometimes I wonder myself if I am out of control…and then see things like this happening around me and I realize…no… there really aren’t many consequences when it comes to safe, sane, and consensual play when done thoughtfully!
What’s the saying…”If you can’t beat them join them”?
I am definitely in the “join them” camp, because their…[Read more]
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Maybe she dropped something and he was ‘helping’ her find it! Lol
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Also very interesting is a drive with trucks on the road! But you’re right, it is more interesting to entice the man in the stiff business suit to whip out his, uh, phone.
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Wow, there’s always a story behind the photo, and this story is so very exciting. I undressed myself once on the Autobahn, while hubby was driving. Even took some pics but they were shabby. Dunno when I’ll have the courage to do this in town (not mine for sure). Thanks for the great story! 🙂
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 5 months agoThis is an experiment, and it has to do with involving a third party in your sexual adventures. Mr. Barrister has been clearly expressed lately about what it would mean to him to see his wife become more expressed and open about her own sexuality and how willing and desirous he is of seeing her be more sexual with others. Mr X hasn’t been too…[Read more]
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I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.
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Fair enough…and it WAS quite revealing…but Adding Lexi was an experience wasn’t it? I wasn’t looking you had wasn’t it?
I wasn’t looking for too much color, just some insight into the conversation…who brought it up…how the other reacted…whether the one who was told some interest also revealed their own interests and desires in…[Read more]
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Adding another woman was discussed many, many years ago simply as a shared bucket list item. Over the years, we have known that this item would be something seriously considered if opportunity presents itself.
Recently, there was an opportunity and Adding Lexi describes basically how we thought we would like it to happen. What was not discussed…[Read more]
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This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]
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Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]
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That is an extraordinarily account of private negotiations within an atypical marriage. Thank you for sharing it.
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P.S. I think adding Lexi is emotionally, just about one of the hardest possible set ups for a threesome… bit of emotional masochism for the person in the role you gave yourself.
I know you are competitive and demanding of yourself. I am very curious if you did that on purpose?
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Yes, the role I gave myself is precisely how I want it. It is not because I am masochistic. I want “Lexi” to be someone with whom he has a real relationship, someone he cares about [to some degree], with whom he can even do things he cannot with me. The “threat” of real competition makes it much hotter for me. Dalliances are not that…[Read more]
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“The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas
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Just read more of his quotes, he has many good ones. Here is another for this conversation.
“True love always makes a man better, no matter what woman inspires it.”
― Alexandre Dumas
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A. James likes lake‘s activity 11 years, 5 months ago
Cult of Personality
I was horny this (Thursday) morning. Master has been a particularly entrancing devil and what he’s done to me I can not even begin to describe. It makes me bolder when I am like this. Always, awed by the power of our innate sexuality… our deepest forms of being. I take risks, I grab what I want, set backs and…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years, 6 months agoThe inspiration that Mrs. Mallory provided me continues…This is a second installment of the same “Fantasy” which resulted from Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
I previously told a story that set the stage and made the result clear enough, but I never really explained what happened between those two points…[Read more]
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This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.
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I admit this is my own totally imagined version of what I often think that women are thinking…how they position and process and contextualize certain things. After I posted it, I got a little self conscious because I realized that I could be totally off, and if I was, I certainly would be showing just how clueless I really am…in fact in how…[Read more]
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I found your account fascinating because it is rare to get this much thought detail from a man’s perspective. For example, even in roleplaying, my male partner(s) can get into numerous details about the physical events from mundane to sexual. However, it is rare to hear as much about the thoughts and emotions.
I do not let people in easily, t…[Read more]
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Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!
Good color on you as well…
Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?
I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]
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I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.
I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?
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“unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉
I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]
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I will also add, I think wonderful women feel passed over or feel ‘invisible’ to men every bit as much as you’ve described. I think it has a lot more to do with being human than being a man or a woman. I also believe it has so much less to do with the fact that people haven’t noticed you, or don’t want you, or are trying to protect against you…[Read more]
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Agreed!
And I am “passed over” all the time!
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For whatever reason the comments by both lake and Mallory remind me of a comment I made a while back about the wonders (and consequences) of modern technological advancements in how we are socializing. First, the wonderful ability to take a few risks and put ourselves out there so much more fearlessly (at least on a preliminary basis) are so much…[Read more]
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James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.
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But of course…what better way to build off of something than to use what has already been established!
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Alix James commented on the post, Mona’s Sexy Suntan Experiment 11 years, 6 months ago
Thank goodness for this…I was missing Mona more than I realized until I saw this…
Plus, I love the “twist” of another woman who is actually interacting with a true secret admirer. Can’t wait to read her response…
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 6 months agoAs a follow-up to lakes TRUTH: Unique/Quirky Turn Ons question…
Mallory suggested nice sheets to which I suggested 100% linen being the absolute best! Well, here are my rumpled 100% linen sheets for all of you to contemplate! I posted a picture with me in them over in the Photo Orgy group!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years, 6 months agoThis “Fantasy” was a result of Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
If you haven’t signed up to the group, you will certainly get the picture, although I much prefer to see her version rendered in the flesh (or at least pixels!)…well…for now!!!My first thought when I saw you posed like that was…”what if some…[Read more]
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Holy shit… I am speechless. I have to tell you that really messed with my head… But I suspect that will come as no surprise.
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The real fun twist with this, is all the explicit dialogue (internal or otherwise) around not wanting to loose control, when it is so clear that the truth is the opposite. It is a fabulous metaphor for the conundrum of human sexuality in our culture.
Aren’t we all begging, yearning, craven for the opposite? To be that free primal sexual…[Read more]
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I’m dizzy from your fantasy and flattered you got SO VERY inspired, James.
Just how did I end up here, bent over, and ready to show you all of me? I’m going to let you have me, use me however you like because you are going to somehow, in your gentlemanly and cavemanly way, let your best friend know what the possibilities are down my erotic and…[Read more]
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Mmmm…
I suspected you would be dizzy…that’s probably the best sign yet!
I cant think if a better way for us to become acquainted…can you?
PS: My friend would NEVER find out…a treasure such as yourself would be worth protecting and you would definitely be under my protection from that moment forward!
Not only that, I expect that with…[Read more]
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Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”
Umph!…
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I loved that thought too.
And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!
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open234 became a registered member 11 years, 6 months ago
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A. James likes lake‘s activity 11 years, 11 months ago
What Is On Your Fantasy List?
Okay I’ll stick with your ‘theme’ … kind of…I live and work on a 37 ft sailboat that Master (M) owns. I am the crew, I maintain and sail the boat. Plus do the cooking and shopping. M spends time on the boat often, but he does not live there. Sometimes he brings guests to visit and\or stay. When we take…[Read more]
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Alix James commented on the post, Virtual Sex: her response to the Internet Sex Experiment 12 years ago
My ability to “contribute” has been limited of late, but make no mistake, I do check in as frequently as I can, and patiently await discovering how YOUR story continues to evolve. I must say, it appears to be […]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 12 years, 2 months agoA few weeks back, Mrs. lake suggested the following link as being her favorite selection to go along with her saddle… http://www.fleetilya.com/restraint/
I noticed that this is the entire “selection” of restraints, so I wanted to ask – What…specifically…you had in mind as something you might like to add to your collection? Would it be…[Read more]
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I thought both of the pictures on that page had great artistry and energy and eroticism. The shadows and colors and decorated flesh… all so evocative. But in particular the two girls bound together with the leather straps does so nudge the imagination into a deliciously debaucherous world of possibility. I hadn’t actually picked a specific pie…[Read more]
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I thought that full body two person strapping might get your attention…I certainly got mine!!! I just love how beautiful all of their pieces are and how perfectly they “showcase” them. Let your imagination run wild!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 2 months agoSo our luscious friend Mrs. kristye posted about her imminent acquisition of a new horse…a young horse that she wants to train and care for in all the ways that she knows and understands would make her a good steed. She also wants to be the one to ”break” her new horse – in and of itself no small task which carries considerable risks.…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 2 months agoThe task was simple, the circumstances less than ideal, and the result…well judge for yourself!
I had been missing my slave. Work and personal obligations having conspired to keep us apart for slightly longer than I would normally like. We both work, we both have obligations and this time of year, there is always one more thing that needs to g…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 2 months agoPIN Mr. X’s TALE ON THE…MEMBER!
I will go first! I would like to ”pin” Chapter 4 of ”The Known Experiment” on Mrs. kristye. More specifically the part where Katharine is introduced to Mr. Hosnani and his exceedingly rare and unique collection! I like what I ”see” of kristye ”stretching” her comfort zone and going to such great ”lengths” up on tha…[Read more] - Load More
href=”http://www.thesexexperiment.com/members/alix-james/”>Alix James and are now friends 
Now, this is cute and lovely!!
Just gave me an idea for the prize for the next game. Guys against the gals. Guys win and the gals have to replicate the bottom photo. Gals win and the guys have to replicate … Well photo to be named. Now we just need a game and some takers…