Great question.

Oh now that just has me wondering all kinds of new questions… what if you were the ‘instigated’? What would that offer you? What do you think is the most likely thing you will next do, that has been in the ‘wouldn’t normally do category’? and of course, Are we going to see a story about what happened ‘a few weeks ago’?… sorry inquirying…[Read more]

I agree, that it is a turn on for both is a must, and that that feedback loop is what heightens the pleasure.

I was also thinking about how submission can also be an instigating act (though it must not be done deliberately to control – well it could, but then its not really submission any longer) and one that’s awful hard to resist :)…[Read more]

It is indeed! 🙂 I find that both of those heighen things. As long as you don’t get arrested, the first is lets risky and easier to control… would your girlfriend/partner flash you and let you take a picture? That might be an easy way to start.

You know I only just recently started to really play with this… and the results just keep surprising me. Some of this game, of course is being played in the ‘Photo Orgy’ group now.

Spankings accepted 🙂 and I remember your banana story, and thinking how your Master does indeed keep you on your toes and riding your boundaries, not to mention putting your readers on the edge! I agree about it ‘flipping’ the switch, you just can’t submit to his gesture letting you know its time to blow him at the table in the restaurant if you…[Read more]