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  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 2 months ago

    NEW GAME

    Ask a true or false question.
    Next person answers all previous questions then adds a question. So I’ll start the first two:

    1st: Dark Chocolate is better than Milk Chocolate
    2nd: True
    Kissing is Better than a Massage
    3rd: This should be you… Comment below

    • alright, I’ll go third too

      True
      True
      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE

      TRUE or FALSE: The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex.

    • Oh wait! This one got skipped!

      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore – true or false?

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. True or False

    • I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.

      Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person, true or false?

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person, TRUE
      We want what we do not have. True or False?

    • Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person: TRUE
      We want what we do not have: TRUE (though I wish I could say false)
      I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. true or false?

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person, TRUE
      We want what we do not have. TRUE
      I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE
      When you hear “wet mount” you think of a microscope. True of False?

    • I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE

      When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)

      I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself; True or False?

      • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
        Kissing better than massage: FALSE
        I’d rather be in love than loved: FALSE
        The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE (I believe this has more to do with presuming that we really know each other well enough to stop trying to discover (or uncover) more and the complacency that ensues rather than some absolute truth)
        People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE (Although my belief that people are constantly changing and evolving is often more a theoretical truth than a practical reality!)
        Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
        Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person, TRUE
        We want what we do not have. TRUE
        I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. FALSE (I profoundly prefer enlisting others in the attainment of my releases!!!)
        When you hear “wet mount” you think of a microscope. FALSE
        I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. FALSE
        (I found this question incredibly fascinating, because when I thought about it, the issue of perception became much more important than I would have ever imagined! I could say lots about what I mean here, but suffice it to say that while I DO find parts of me (and even the whole) to be arousing, but I realized that even for those parts of me that I do really, really like (i.e. those which I truly believe would objectively stand out as exceptional relative to others), that compared to how I feel when they are passed through the filter of how others perceive and experience and relate to them (i.e. how they objectify that part of me) the arousal I feel is so much greater as to cause me to conclude that the answer must be false even if a part of me think it is true!)
        I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair which lasted for one summer, over a steady lifetime diet of uninspired but “ok” sex, True or False?

        • This is difficult, most of my answers would be “depends on the situation” except that’s clearly not an option so I’ll have to pick one.

          Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
          Kissing better than massage: FALSE
          I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
          The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
          People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore: FALSE
          Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games.: TRUE (see also: The bike experiment 2.0)
          Sex is made hotter by how completely you open yourself to another person: TRUE (See also: the bike experiment 3.0, which I don’t feel like I can actually write about since it really was that intimate)
          We want what we do not have. TRUE (and on that note, I will add that we want what we CANNOT have)
          I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE
          When you hear “wet mount” you think of a microscope. TRUE
          I am turned on by myself (body, mind actions): TRUE (is this a kind of narcissism? )
          I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair…: FALSE (as someone who’s experienced rare searingly hot sex followed by a mass of completely terrible sex, I think I’d prefer it if things averaged out to be ok/good).

          It’s better to give than receive (oral). True or false?

    • I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE

      I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to the sexual experience, so I am going to repose it more broadly and in a way that for me makes it much harder to answer)

      I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great emotional risk, and the possibility of moments of deepest fulfillment. True or False?

    • I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. TRUE
      I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair which lasted for one summer, over a steady lifetime diet of uninspired but “ok” sex, TRUE
      I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great emotional risk, and the possibility of moments of deepest fulfillment. TRUE

      Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. True or False?

    • I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great emotional risk, and the possibility of moments of deepest fulfillment. When I was younger, I would have said TRUE and I lived accordingly. But I am different now, I need different things, I can bear more, flex farther and I am not so sure, but I think now it is FALSE.

      Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. Sexual freedom only is going to be FALSE against primary duties. But there are other kinds of freedoms I value more, and I expect my definition of what my duties actually are, is also somewhat different than what others would consider them. So there is a LOT of grey here.

      The dog should not be allowed on the furniture; True or False?

    • Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. FALSE
      The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. TRUE

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” True or false?

    • The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other word that was true and that I know the meaning behind it (like precious slut or horny slut) then that with the rest works fine.)
      I am sure the following two relationship goals can be fully achieved in a single extended long term relationship: traditional work/family partnership and commitment AND personal inspiration, exploration, expression, and actualization. True or false?