Mallory

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I want the recipe!

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Okay okay yours are Boobs, mine are boobies or as some guy referred to them, boobettes.

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years, 6 months ago

    Valentine Experiment

    Saint Valentine’s Day was originally (and still is) a Roman Catholic feast day, commemorating the life of a certain Valentinus, who was martyred in Rome some time in the 3rd Century A.D. The story is, while he was imprisoned for serving as a Christian priest, he healed the jailer’s daughter from blindness and apparently, fel…[Read more]

    • Good experiment; time to walk the walk… And I do depend on y’all to push me along this path of being ever more romantic (there is a lot of room to grow!)

    • Thank you, Luis. I am very happy it brought you intense emotions.

    • Ah but you did still share so much… I enjoy so much expressions of excitement and adoration and arousal, but also of course love. This made me feel so warm and happy.

    • My life means much more.
      Most important aspect of my life.
      My encouragement and courage.
      Kept me in the game, made it possible for me to hope, become better.
      A dominant force in how I define myself.
      Because of you, I have passion to fuel my will to keep going.

    • Alright, I wasn’t going to share, cause I’m shy about this (I don’t consider myself particularly poetic or romantic), but I’ve really enjoyed the way others have gone for it, and reading what’s been shared… and I’m nothing if not a joiner… so… here goes nothing.

      I keep a small notebook in my purse, at times when I have a particularly…[Read more]

      • First of all, how you can keep and fill the content this notebook, and do not consider yourself romantic is beyond me. It is incredibly romantic and more importantly, memorializes and cherishes those fleeting moments and those significant memories.

    • I stole the idea, #5 did it for me, that book is own of my most treasured possessions. We should all steal the idea.

    • They may not be writing it down Luis, but i know you too well not to know there are women out there filling their book on you in their minds.

    • Sorry I’m late (as usual), but how could I resist the challenge of expressing myself within limits (particularly when I’m prone to being verbose)? Context: long-distance writer friend I’ve had warm feelings for over the better part of a decade, but for whatever reason (long distance or either/both of us being in relationships with other people)…[Read more]

      • How I love when all you can do is dance and your mind go crazy imagining what it would be like for more.

      • Loved it Ellasaria! Reminded me of one of my long time favorites:

        “In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.”
        ― Rumi

        • Rumi always says it much better than I ever could. 😀

          I’ve admitted to this person that I would be glad to assist him with his involuntary celibacy problem, but I suppose it speaks to his character that he turned me down due to our history (and the fact that we’re too far apart for it to go anywhere).

          • You are a Diva Ms EllariaSand… I have a hard time imagining there are not true fans gathered near you. Do you turn your gaze on these poor devoted souls? Let them a turn to court you as well? Is it always the huntress in you that chooses?

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    New word: Pain

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I don\’t know how we arrived here from prostate self exam to groping lake\’s boobies! But I will comment again….

    Remain humble and evolving.
    Take friends and make friends along the way.
    Stay grounded in reality, strive for more in spite of failures and obstacles.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    And so, we arrive at this boomed connectedness. No longer striving for \”all about you\” or \”all about me,\” but rather, All About Us. Trading emphasis, allowing for fluidity, discovering the right fit of reciprocity, sharing true and deep intimacy.

    • Nirvana…

      I wish that I never stop at or accept less.

      I wish that I always remember there are far more opportunities to arrive there when I am able to see that possibility through all the varied roads upon which it may be gotten, so that I can be rich with the effects of it and the many wild and varied Flavors and types of people whom can…[Read more]

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Yes, sensibilities on the limits of your terms and guessing what are negotiable, what are worth asking, what can be redefined.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    \”….you know how you can\’t help but touch the fire anyway? That\’s me alright. Me and my dick. Fire? No problem, we\’re in…………And then I howled, I howled at the burn of the fire.\”

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Agree! Love personal traditions.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Both.
    I wanted to say absence of confidence in self and other.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Absence of confidence.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I have to agree with the hubby that it has become pure consumerism, although that is true for all other holidays these days. I reject it also. Romance and passion should be in the daily details. When they are not, we have an annual grand gesture of love offerings.

    • Hmmm… Put that way, sounds more like a grand gesture of obligation than love. I have not figured it out yet, but like the idea that there is a happy medium out there some where, some cute personal tradition. Feeding him breakfast with your fingers in the open air or something.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I stand corrected! You had me very confused the cabbage and romance!

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I have to go with lake on this one, even broccoli would be better than cabbage.

    • I stand corrected! You had me very confused the cabbage and romance!

    • Your list of flower choices was very interesting and on the mark for me. I collect orchids and one of my own paintings that is an altimeter favorite is a huge canvas with a single strelitzia… and I’m quite sure you were quite confident I would like your description of what you planned to do with the roses the moment you wrote it.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    I don\’t want power. I don\’t want control. I think just a little trust to experiment, to taste a new adventure, to accept a gift offered.

    • If you dangle the boom of a flash fire before me my lady, you can rest assured, I am along for the ride trust offered, adventure relished, gift cherished… Your terms… mine… or anything in between.

      P.S. Depending on how broadly one wants to define it, it could be said you used the power of your thrall over me here to control me simply with…[Read more]

      • “….you know how you can’t help but touch the fire anyway? That’s me alright. Me and my dick. Fire? No problem, we’re in…………And then I howled, I howled at the burn of the fire.”

      • Yes, sensibilities on the limits of your terms and guessing what are negotiable, what are worth asking, what can be redefined.

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Part of the searing heat of discovery is the yet to be answered question of how much, how long can you bear. I would make a commitment to put myself aside in exchange for savoring that discovery. If I go harder and melting begins, I would have to turn around, go lighter, start over. In so doing, turning down my own heat. Release will come when…[Read more]

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Forget his hand, bearing down hard. Think about about my fingers palpating each quadrant, from outer, in itsy-bitsy spider pattern toward your nipple where your nipple is squeezed between my thumb and forefinger. Squeezed and pushed in; squeezed and pulled up. Eight quadrants. Might take quite a bit of time. Can you bear it?

  • Mallory posted a new activity comment 11 years, 6 months ago

    Seriously, once a year?

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