• Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 7 years, 12 months ago

    What Matters?

    At Mr R. Goodcock’s prodding (@r-goodcock), I would like to invite all of you to share something that matters to you. This is the Sex Experiment after all, so let’s first keep the direction of “what matters” connected to your sexual self. You may be shy, you may be hesitant, but think about this: if you say things of consequence, there may be consequences, but the alternative is to become inconsequential.

    Tell us a secret, tell us what matters to you.

    • We kissed and fucked, but we never dated and we never raised the questions of what we were doing with each other.

      He was this person whose consequence I never captured with a label, whose possibility I never got over. I think about all the reasons for why it hurts so much, this hole he left behind inside me. We practiced so much caution that we never raised our voice to answer the question of what are we to each other. We became intangible. Nothing starts. Nothing to end. It should have been simple, right?

      • Mallory, such a powerful reflection. Everything in our lives shows us who we are being, and what the being yields. Everything in life is an opportunity to examine, our being, and shape it to yield more of what is meaningful. In this way, the journey takes us ever closer to our bliss, our purpose, relevance. Love it darling.

    • What matters to me, is to know, and be known, not in the conventional ways, not in the well managed ways, and impressive ways, but in the gritty, and real ways. For what’s in my heart, and soul, for how my body needs to express. What’s meaningful to me, is people with the space, and capability to meet me there, where there is no right or wrong, better or worse, where there is simply us, and where this moment is everything.

    • A very warm welcome, Mr Hyde. And I agree. The ride is all about trying, striving for whatever it is that makes it all worthwhile.