The Sex Experiment

I need to be seen, understood, cherished. I need to reach, be inspired, and be turned on.

The hardest of these is to be understood and inspired. The two that have done it best have resulted in the most insanely powerful, wildly sexual long term interactions of my life.

Do you think it is more difficult to recognize and acknowledge exactly what it is that most women really do need to get that only men might provide…

Or do you think that it is harder to actually just come right out and say it?!?

Either way, I am still waiting for SOMEONE to comment on this!!!

-James

To hold doors open for them. Haha…. I’m just kidding.

With the advent and selection of various “toys”, one could assume that women wouldn’t really need men for sex. But to quote someone “nothing feels like the real thing”. So there is still hope for us men lol

Women need authentic men who can offer their full, undivided presence. It is anchoring and affirming to women.

At a global level, women need men to sacrifice themselves so that others can live and honor that sacrifice.

Women need men who have balance, who know what they want, honest with themselves if they don’t, who have courage, who can do the right thing, who are generous, and who can put someone else ahead of themselves.

…to make them civilized.

To procreate.

Sounds mushy gushy, but men need women to feel complete.

For inspiration

When the reward out ways the risk involved

The rewards

For the sake of someone else.

It’s a doorway to discovery

Sunshine on my belly

Being in the water

Lips kissing skin. Especially the backside of any part of the body.

So many favorites…but come on…as a man…there is no greater “sensation on skin” that when your cock presses through the tight smooth entrance of a woman’s pussy for the first time when having sex (not just the first sexual experience, but the first penetration on each separate sexual experience same woman or not)! There are more intense…[Read more]

Cool grass on bare feet

Feet in the sand

Well, that just sent me down a rabbit hole of watching way too many of those AP videos. Talk about distracting!

You can even pretend not to know each other.

Tell the people you meet it’s your date night and see if they have any kinky or sexy recommendations for you! 🙂

This was a hot series of photos Doris, the staging in your pics seems to just keep getting better and better. The dialog between the two of you was interesting as well. I like the way you manage to be very open to his views and how you find relatable ways to respond without sacrificing your integrity where your own views are different. Thank…[Read more]

I’d say we call that one a win win.

I have gotten some great ideas from here. So glad we found this place. I’m sure we will come up with something fun and interesting to try. It seems we push boundaries and expand ideas and experiments each day.

Oh yes, let’s go with taking a vacation day love they Idea of being truant and free. Maybe have her arrive where you two will meet ahead of you, again dressed in way that she feels exposed. Have her pick a spot to stand and wait for you, then close her eyes and be still, not to open them until she is told to. Obviously, you then have a…[Read more]

This is a great tale about how the simple unseen things can make all the difference in the world for a couple to get themselves in the right….well…mindset! I also love your choice of words…”the twist”! I simply love the art and craft of creating palpable sexual tension , pushing and pulling and twisting and turning in all the predictable…[Read more]

I’ll start.

When I can smell him on me for the rest of the day after we’ve fucked.

Sexting all day and fu $#@*g all night

When his eyes drop with that little nod then come straight back into mine, signaling it’s time to get on his cock, and I am instantly in motion.

That my fantasies don’t freak him out.

When he pulls my panties back up for me.

The way she quivers and moans as I nibble at the back of her neck and behind her ears. Mmmmmm

The way her entire body goes stiff and her breathing catches and her eyes flicker and her face goes expressionless and all intentional communication stops cold for a brief moment at my first touch – EVERY SINGLE TIME WE MEET!
-James

The way that even after we have greeted one another and settled into whatever conversation or activity, how there are certain spots that I touch…trigger points…that cause the whole process described above to happen all over again…only progressively more intensely. When I take her hand…when I wrap my arm around her waist and rest my hand on…[Read more]

You are enjoying it very very nicely.

Yeah, you know, good point Luis! I remember thinking about what it might be like to be your neighbor when you have on occasssion mentioned them, but this picture definitely made me realize just how much I would enjoy having a lovely treat such as yourself as a neighbor. I am pretty certain that it would really make me want to find a way to work…[Read more]

Mmmm, can’t stop picturing more soft petals brushing against sweet flesh in more places …

What do you consider “sloppy?”

hmmmmm …. assume that the relationship which hasn’t yet deceloped will be exactly like the one they implicitly imagine; or, conversely, assume that the person they’re courting with has specific attitudes and desires about the developing relationship which they don’t share …

So in other words, you like LOTS of things standing at attention! 😉

Don’t be fake. Be yourself.

No being themselves… It sounds counterintuitive, because we DO live in a world which seems to expect people to present themselves as “favorably” as possible, but the truth is that while giving a favorable impression may land someone the partner they have always dreamed of, the insecurity and inability to actually become something that you are n…[Read more]

Authenticity may indeed be the biggest turn on of all in the long run, if you ask me.