The Sex Experiment

Thanks, Loverboy. I think you’re absolutely right. There seem to be two types of experiments: those that are successes if you can simply pull them off, and those that are successes if you can pull them off right. […]

Thanks, Cheeky Minx. The right column will take you through the whole experiment in order. While you do that, I’m going back over to your website to…peruse it a bit further. I’m obsessed, and you know how to wear a hat.

Thanks, Margot. High praise from a woman who has her way with words. Since your previous post (this one: http://laravaudeuse.blogspot.com/2011/04/weights.html) I’ve been planning and re-planning to get to the gym. […]

Again, I think I like you!

Oh, Ludie. I do understand that, and I think I like you. I’ll be sure to bring along those miniature scissors. We’ll be able to say that your underwear and stockings died in a good cause.

Ha! I have no idea what you just said.

Merci! Je crois bien. J’ai de la chance, non?

Thanks, Chris. I agree, but then the intense excitement of the end of the night couldn’t have existed without the build-up of the rest of the night. Most of sex is foreplay, it seems to me.

Thanks! I’ll be very curious to hear how you entice your husband back into a burning hot bed. In the end everyone likes to have the sense that there are unexpected possibilities out there, so I have hope for your hubby.

Thanks, Johnny. We’ve been at a crossroads too, actually, until it got to the point where I thought: well, what the hell. The experiments could have driven us further apart, I’m sure, but interestingly enough […]

No limits, Lady P. That’s the goal, at least, but part of the game is pushing just far enough, but not too far. And then little by little the limits are moving. Thanks for your note!

Thanks, Gigi. I’m sure you will. Sometimes those wants and needs seem far, far away, and sometimes they’re closer than you’d expect. Sometimes, maybe, it’s just our perspective that can change everything.

Agreed, Chris (and thanks for the catch!).