The Sex Experiment

You are out of control, James. I hope she is ready for you tomorrow.

Maybe she dropped something and he was ‘helping’ her find it! Lol

Also very interesting is a drive with trucks on the road! But you’re right, it is more interesting to entice the man in the stiff business suit to whip out his, uh, phone.

Wow, there’s always a story behind the photo, and this story is so very exciting. I undressed myself once on the Autobahn, while hubby was driving. Even took some pics but they were shabby. Dunno when I’ll have the courage to do this in town (not mine for sure). Thanks for the great story! 🙂

I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.

This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]

Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]

“The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas

This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.

“unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉

I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]

James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.

Holy shit… I am speechless. I have to tell you that really messed with my head… But I suspect that will come as no surprise.

The real fun twist with this, is all the explicit dialogue (internal or otherwise) around not wanting to loose control, when it is so clear that the truth is the opposite. It is a fabulous metaphor for the conundrum of human sexuality in our culture.

Aren’t we all begging, yearning, craven for the opposite? To be that free primal sexual…[Read more]

I’m dizzy from your fantasy and flattered you got SO VERY inspired, James.

Just how did I end up here, bent over, and ready to show you all of me? I’m going to let you have me, use me however you like because you are going to somehow, in your gentlemanly and cavemanly way, let your best friend know what the possibilities are down my erotic and…[Read more]