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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 1 month agoSitting in Eataly, drinking a glass of wine and smelling the fruitiness intermingled with the musty scents on my hands and face. We’ve just parted ways, but he has not left me. I am stalling before rejoining the world. I want to continue to lick him off my hand, the bread, my lips a little longer. I feel him so deep inside me it’s hard to…[Read more]
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lake likes Mallory‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
What Is On Your Fantasy List?
To Explore Fear and Eroticism in Rough WatersFear makes for highly erotic, hot sex. I picture having no option left but boarding a dinghy and going through very rough waters with either a lover or a stranger. After surviving a couple of hours battling the waters, we get to shore. We are soaked and freezing to the…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 1 month agoWhat is on your fantasy list
Going with a standard…. Every man’s fantasyThere is a man at work I’ve had a crush on for years. At almost all times I shield my ass off to make sure it is not perceptible. However there are a few small, subtle tells I do allow myself. One of the things that really makes it difficult for me, is anytime I find…[Read more]
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So MrTinkertoys, When are you jumping in here to play with Mallory and me?
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I say it counts, productivity however might be a concern!
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lake likes Doris‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
Adding this pic with myself in the act of saying “Thank You” and “I love You” to my man…
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lake posted an update 12 years, 1 month ago
Almost Summer! 10ks, color in the garden, tee times, and pondering vacation locations… how about you?
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I just got out for the first time this year last week. Enjoyed it so much, committed myself to getting out more regularly this year… At least while the weather is good. I’m sort of a cold whimp,
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lake likes AdamNoah‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 1 month agoWhat Is On Your Fantasy List?
Okay I’ll stick with your ‘theme’ … kind of…I live and work on a 37 ft sailboat that Master (M) owns. I am the crew, I maintain and sail the boat. Plus do the cooking and shopping. M spends time on the boat often, but he does not live there. Sometimes he brings guests to visit and\or stay. When we take…[Read more]
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lake likes Mallory‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
What Is On Your Fantasy List?
I thought it might be fun to just swap some fantasies and give us some new ideas. I will go first.
My lover and I have a pet. We decide that she is perfect to offer up as a drinking companion for an executive from overseas. She is to dress a part, display her charms, entertain him however we see fit. Will it…[Read more]
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lake likes luis‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
This piece can be very sexy and erotic. Its author named it as ”The rain must fall”.
Ok, put the rain and bad weather apart and try to imagine the history of a torrid and passionate relation. It starts beautifuly with moments of approach, flirt and butterflies on stomach (the piano part), then goes thr…[Read more] -
lake likes ellariasand‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
Love/lust as the ultimate form of idolatry. Also, bonus points to whoever posted this for combining the song with BBC Sherlock (Irene Adler is a woman after my own heart.)
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lake likes luis‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
This one goes for the ladies.
Have you ever thought do your man a striptease? I’m sure he already thought about it but for some reason you or him find it too hard to do it. If you think its hard you may be wrong, give it a try and read this first:
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lake posted an update 12 years, 1 month ago
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Switch 100%
Experimental 86%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 79%-
No holding back, you know I’m dying to see the D\s scores!
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OH!! I kind of agreed with the “top three.” Here is the rest but I do not agree as much about these:
Submissive 57%
Dominant 36%(probably different if partner is female)
Bondage 32%
Masochist 29%
Sadist 29% (this is too high)
Degradation 18% (I think I am closer to 0 on this)
Vanilla 18%
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here’s what I scored (I’d probably put sadism and degradation lower and bondage and domination a little higher)
Switch 93%
Submissive 89%
Experimental 86%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 68%
Masochist 57%
Sadist 54%
Bondage 50%
Dominant 46%
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On degradation I lean more toward objectification, and on the Ds stuff it’s also VERY gender dependent.
If you were completely un partnered and could find exactly the right personpeople, what would your ideal long-term partnering relationship look like? Who would be involved? And what genders? What dynamics would be in play? (consider that…[Read more]
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I think that is a complex question if sexual self coexist with your identity as a family member, a parent, a professional, a citizen of the general society.
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Oh it is indeed!! Makes it so irresistable to ask 🙂
I feel like every five years or so I am in a completely different place with how and why I would answer a particular way. I live, I meet, I break through some boundary, I fall in love and all my ideas about what I want, what matters, and what’s possible change.
My current ideal would be an…[Read more]
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I also want to see scores from more people!!
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89% Experimental, which seems appropriate. Naive question: what’s “Switch”. That’s #2 at 67%.
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lake had me show all of mine, so you gotta too!
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oh yes you do indeed ‘gotta too’!!… please Sir 😉
If you switch or are a switch it generally (there are variations on the nuances) means at least some aspects of your prefered role are dependent on the context or situational… so you may be/feel/play Dominant/sadist/Top OR submissive/masochist/bottom dependant on the person, the situation, or…[Read more]
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Using a D/s example), if Both of the following activities seem equally applicable it would bode well for your ‘Switchability’ vs leaning strongly toward one or the other. If your heteroflexible or bi and want to have fun with it, flip the genders and see if that changes anything.
1. After being given permission you greedily bury your face between…[Read more]
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OK, I think I’m beginning to understand. But it’s all so hard, isn’t it…? And all these numbers…? And the vocabulary! Uh, could I maybe stay after class so maybe you can help me some more with this?
As for the survey, not going to go through it all again. but submissive was in the low teens, if not single digits. Dominant was in the low…[Read more]
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Oh yeah, and voyeur way up there, maybe at 2, or at least 3.
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[lake rolls up sleeves]
Oh yes, I can see you are definitely going to need some special attention and lots of hands on experimentation if we’re going to make this tutoring stick. But have no fear, I am sure we cam structure these lessons so as to be ‘memorable’! hmmm, but where to start…
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oh goodie more Players! Very interesting Mr Tinkertoys… care to comment on whether you agree or if anything surprised you?
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In the world of D/s i am an extreme switch, but its almost entirely based on gender. In the vanilla world, I think it’s much more blended because give and take are not as distinctive. I am very curious how people interpretapply the concept of switch outside of D/s dynamics and in a strictly hetero sense. I would love to hear someone elaborate…[Read more]
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lake commented on the post, Virtual Sex: her response to the Internet Sex Experiment 12 years, 1 month ago
biting my lip and trying to manage the rush of greedy, wanton desires that inspires…
p.s. I like often
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lake likes strudellady‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
Happy Friday…today’s request!
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lake likes AdamNoah‘s activity 12 years, 1 month ago
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lake posted an update 12 years, 2 months ago
\”Do that to me one more time, once is never enough, with a man like you.\” ~Captain and Tennille
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lake likes luis‘s activity 12 years, 2 months ago
At one of those resorts. Anyone planning to schedule vacations in such resort ?
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href=”http://www.thesexexperiment.com/members/lake/”>lake and are now friends 
Like standing in the middle the world’s busiest airport, heart full, soul thoroughly loved and fucked, and you start feeling voracious all over again.
Yes, Exactly
Longing so bittersweet. I want never to be without it or the inspiration it brings. It pulls me forward, fills my heart, and lights me up. Still it is a slippery rascal with a wicked side, that undisciplined can turn energy to anxiety, neediness, jealousy, and distraction.
Thank goodness for getting smarter everyday, for friends and…[Read more]
I think you nailed it with that last statement… I would have to think long and hard to come up with ANYTHING that I would need to add to your list of things to be thankful for that could materially improve my chances of happiness in life!