Stressing about that kind of thing for your first time, will kill any enjoyment you will get from the experience. You always remember your first time, and if it was a horror story, you set yourself up for failure for a long time to come. I’ve had guys that were done before they even got in, I’ve had guys go for three hours and still not be done. There is no set time that you should be able to last because every individual is different. Anyone who tells you otherwise, is trying to fill your head with nonsense, and you should ignore their brand of “advice”. About the only thing I suggest, is that when you choose to lose your virginity, try and make it with someone who is experienced. This will mean that she can help you through it with whatever you need, and she should also be understanding enough to know that with it being your first time, you’re not going to last long. That is a given. For the first few times, you will be experiencing new sensations, and your body will be on ‘react’ mode. Which is perfectly natural. Don’t pressure yourself into believing that you’re going to be the perfect lover right on your first time. Just relax, enjoy the experience as much as you can. Your stamina and ability to make a woman cum, will happen later when your body has had a chance to get used to the sensations it’s being assaulted with. I’ve been sexually active for 16 years now, and while I’ve only been with guys that I was attracted to, most of them sweet enough to try and rock my world, I have yet to have an orgasm that wasn’t induced by me or my toys. No man has ever been able to finish me off, and I know that there’s a lot of other women out there who will say the same thing if they are honest with themselves. This is no reflection on the partners I have had, it’s just the way my body is. I’ve been doing it myself since I was very young, and I know the right spots and the right moments to hit those spots. The only advice I can offer on that subject, is “please do not ask a woman if she is done yet”. Yes I have been asked this. And it’s very off putting. Also, don’t ask her if she came, if you’re not prepared to hear a no. Some women can’t, no matter how experienced the guy is. What you can do, is ask her if she likes what you are doing, and be prepared to follow instructions or suggestions if she asks you to do it another way. If your first time is with an understanding, sexually mature partner, you will be fine. Enjoy it!