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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Fair enough…and it WAS quite revealing…but Adding Lexi was an experience wasn’t it? I wasn’t looking you had wasn’t it?
I wasn’t looking for too much color, just some insight into the conversation…who brought it up…how the other reacted…whether the one who was told some interest also revealed their own interests and desires in…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Sometimes I wonder myself if I am out of control…and then see things like this happening around me and I realize…no… there really aren’t many consequences when it comes to safe, sane, and consensual play when done thoughtfully!
What’s the saying…”If you can’t beat them join them”?
I am definitely in the “join them” camp, because their…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 11 years, 11 months agoNot as revealing…not as conceptual…and not as high a quality as I am accustomed to sharing, but this has a quality far and away better than almost all the others…IT IS REAL!!!
Thats, right…a real shot…a real woman…a real car…a real street in New York City (an avenue actually)…and taken by ME!
So what is this? Well…it is obviously a woman…[Read more]
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You are out of control, James. I hope she is ready for you tomorrow.
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Sometimes I wonder myself if I am out of control…and then see things like this happening around me and I realize…no… there really aren’t many consequences when it comes to safe, sane, and consensual play when done thoughtfully!
What’s the saying…”If you can’t beat them join them”?
I am definitely in the “join them” camp, because their…[Read more]
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Maybe she dropped something and he was ‘helping’ her find it! Lol
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Also very interesting is a drive with trucks on the road! But you’re right, it is more interesting to entice the man in the stiff business suit to whip out his, uh, phone.
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Wow, there’s always a story behind the photo, and this story is so very exciting. I undressed myself once on the Autobahn, while hubby was driving. Even took some pics but they were shabby. Dunno when I’ll have the courage to do this in town (not mine for sure). Thanks for the great story! 🙂
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
This is really hot!!! Thank you for rejoining the conversation…I am sure this will push many of us further along in our own!!!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 11 months agoThis is an experiment, and it has to do with involving a third party in your sexual adventures. Mr. Barrister has been clearly expressed lately about what it would mean to him to see his wife become more expressed and open about her own sexuality and how willing and desirous he is of seeing her be more sexual with others. Mr X hasn’t been too…[Read more]
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I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.
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Fair enough…and it WAS quite revealing…but Adding Lexi was an experience wasn’t it? I wasn’t looking you had wasn’t it?
I wasn’t looking for too much color, just some insight into the conversation…who brought it up…how the other reacted…whether the one who was told some interest also revealed their own interests and desires in…[Read more]
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Adding another woman was discussed many, many years ago simply as a shared bucket list item. Over the years, we have known that this item would be something seriously considered if opportunity presents itself.
Recently, there was an opportunity and Adding Lexi describes basically how we thought we would like it to happen. What was not discussed…[Read more]
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This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]
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Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]
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That is an extraordinarily account of private negotiations within an atypical marriage. Thank you for sharing it.
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P.S. I think adding Lexi is emotionally, just about one of the hardest possible set ups for a threesome… bit of emotional masochism for the person in the role you gave yourself.
I know you are competitive and demanding of yourself. I am very curious if you did that on purpose?
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Yes, the role I gave myself is precisely how I want it. It is not because I am masochistic. I want “Lexi” to be someone with whom he has a real relationship, someone he cares about [to some degree], with whom he can even do things he cannot with me. The “threat” of real competition makes it much hotter for me. Dalliances are not that…[Read more]
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“The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas
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Just read more of his quotes, he has many good ones. Here is another for this conversation.
“True love always makes a man better, no matter what woman inspires it.”
― Alexandre Dumas
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Indeed there is, but it can be a double edged sword…for every additional way that pleasure may be taken, it also becomes harder to unravel all those little barriers… But when the walls DO come tumbling down…look out because there is so much held inside!!! Now that is a show I do not want to miss!!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Oh, I definitely get it Mrs. Mallory…I really do!!!
I can not wait to be let more fully inside…
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Check…Check…and…Double Check!!!!
Well then…it is settled…at least in these regards it seems that we might be a perfect match!
Considering that I am one who is always ready willing and able to celebrate good fortune (others as much as my own!), it seems that all we have left to do now is consummate our incredible luck in having found…[Read more]
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Well then if it’s settled 🙂 … And of course you are going to need someone to take pictures for you to satisfy Mallory… It almost seems like fighting destiny to resist at this point, and I definitely wouldn’t want to do that.
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
I can’t yet claim to have a complete picture of you just yet Mrs. Mallory (you are a complex one – but you already knew that didn’t you!), but I do believe I have already formed a a pretty exceptional insight in you and SEE many parts of your true (and often hidden) self much more clearly than you are probably ready to admit! I guess I say this…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Oh, there is much Mrs Barrister has to be thankful for, but my jealousy tends more towards Mr. Barrister! One would think that having someone so unselfishly devoted to them in the ways Mr. barrister has described as the ideal, but it actually works both ways…I am jealous of his having found a woman who will let him inside to such a degree…to…[Read more]
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Gentlemen, you restore my faith in our species.
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Hmmm…seems a perfect compliment to my response to ms lakes three questions…sensuality and arousal definitely lie in the details…I am savoring every last one you have offered up here…THIS is how we let others inside…how we play and tease and challenge others to let themselves go…become fully present…the beginning of all the tiny…[Read more]
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I SO appreciate how you get it, James.
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Oh, I definitely get it Mrs. Mallory…I really do!!!
I can not wait to be let more fully inside…
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
Well…you have certainly added a twist with this revelation…a naughty little insight into Alex and possibly into his relationship with Nicole…what’s it mean…what’s it say about him…about Nicole…how does that work (or not work) in strengthening their relationship? And what exactly is Nicole thinking about her polite but determined…[Read more]
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Yes, there can be so much pleasure in complexity.
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Indeed there is, but it can be a double edged sword…for every additional way that pleasure may be taken, it also becomes harder to unravel all those little barriers… But when the walls DO come tumbling down…look out because there is so much held inside!!! Now that is a show I do not want to miss!!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 11 months ago
1) Melts me…witnessing the shudder of a woman as a wave of pleasure momentarily overwhelms her and she relaxes into it…accepts it…embraces it and allows it to course through her body and take her deeper into her head…more into the moment and less concerned with whatever else is going on around her
2) Arouses me…glimpses of unfiltered…[Read more]
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One and two are so very you James, three surprised me, not that it doesn’t fit, but that it was your response to that particular question. At first it seemed too passive, but then I realized it is all about acceptance and being or authenticity, and that fit well with your comments about separating or not associating love directly with someone’s…[Read more]
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A. James likes lake‘s activity 11 years, 11 months ago
Cult of Personality
I was horny this (Thursday) morning. Master has been a particularly entrancing devil and what he’s done to me I can not even begin to describe. It makes me bolder when I am like this. Always, awed by the power of our innate sexuality… our deepest forms of being. I take risks, I grab what I want, set backs and…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 12 months ago
Smart man!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 12 months ago
ouch…nothing like being left at the proverbial alter…I wonder if there is anything else I might have done to inspire such twist?
Well, I promise to make it up to you by hanging on every word and if you get really naughty…resuming my \”role\” and showing you what I had always intended!
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I fully expect you to resume your “role.” I want very much to be shown your intentions!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 11 years, 12 months ago
But of course…what better way to build off of something than to use what has already been established!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years ago
I yearn most for TRUTH. For the wild and unexpected and beautiful and seemingly endless inspiration which comes from TRUTH! And although there are a few universal truths, to be clear those are largely not the ones I seek. The TRUTH I speak of is largely NOT some universal thing…it is often situational…it varies…it changes over time…it…[Read more]
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There was a time, when I thought certain things about myself were fact – just always going to be so about me. After the fourth or fifth time of having one of these ‘facts’ completely unravel in new situations or because of a shift in my thinking, I too stopped believing that who I know myself to be is fixed. I think we are so much more infinite…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years ago
Well, I can say that despite considerably efforts in this regards, I have not yet been able to rise above the point of becoming embarrassed entirely (or feeling shame or being humiliated for that matter), but I have become better able to place all of that in context! That stems from really working to accept oneself and, when pushed closer to the…[Read more]
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Adding another woman was discussed many, many years ago simply as a shared bucket list item. Over the years, we have known that this item would be something seriously considered if opportunity presents itself.
Recently, there was an opportunity and Adding Lexi describes basically how we thought we would like it to happen. What was not discussed…[Read more]