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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
I never thought of it that way mrs. L…but now that you mention it, I suppose that would be a bit of a game changer wouldn’t it. The same would hold true for women I suppose (going with the notion that if it were physically more practical for men it might be for women as well…), I suppose that blowjobs and cunnilingus would each become more…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
For whatever reason the comments by both lake and Mallory remind me of a comment I made a while back about the wonders (and consequences) of modern technological advancements in how we are socializing. First, the wonderful ability to take a few risks and put ourselves out there so much more fearlessly (at least on a preliminary basis) are so much…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!
Good color on you as well…
Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?
I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]
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I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.
I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
I admit this is my own totally imagined version of what I often think that women are thinking…how they position and process and contextualize certain things. After I posted it, I got a little self conscious because I realized that I could be totally off, and if I was, I certainly would be showing just how clueless I really am…in fact in how…[Read more]
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I found your account fascinating because it is rare to get this much thought detail from a man’s perspective. For example, even in roleplaying, my male partner(s) can get into numerous details about the physical events from mundane to sexual. However, it is rare to hear as much about the thoughts and emotions.
I do not let people in easily, t…[Read more]
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Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!
Good color on you as well…
Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?
I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]
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I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.
I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Just out of curiosity Mr. Flemming…there is a slight but potentially relevant difference in the way you described what it is that you find appealing and what Mallory expressed…more of an offering…giving more than taking.
Which do you find more arousing…the physical sensations (sight, texture, smell, taste) and mental and emotional aspects…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Mmmm…you do have a gift Mrs. M! Both for words AND for the fearless way you can express your tactile, sensory perceptions and connect with the more primal feelings and emotions which underpin them. This is beautiful!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 3 months agoThe inspiration that Mrs. Mallory provided me continues…This is a second installment of the same “Fantasy” which resulted from Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
I previously told a story that set the stage and made the result clear enough, but I never really explained what happened between those two points…[Read more]
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This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.
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I admit this is my own totally imagined version of what I often think that women are thinking…how they position and process and contextualize certain things. After I posted it, I got a little self conscious because I realized that I could be totally off, and if I was, I certainly would be showing just how clueless I really am…in fact in how…[Read more]
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I found your account fascinating because it is rare to get this much thought detail from a man’s perspective. For example, even in roleplaying, my male partner(s) can get into numerous details about the physical events from mundane to sexual. However, it is rare to hear as much about the thoughts and emotions.
I do not let people in easily, t…[Read more]
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Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!
Good color on you as well…
Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?
I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]
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I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.
I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?
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“unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉
I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]
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I will also add, I think wonderful women feel passed over or feel ‘invisible’ to men every bit as much as you’ve described. I think it has a lot more to do with being human than being a man or a woman. I also believe it has so much less to do with the fact that people haven’t noticed you, or don’t want you, or are trying to protect against you…[Read more]
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Agreed!
And I am “passed over” all the time!
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For whatever reason the comments by both lake and Mallory remind me of a comment I made a while back about the wonders (and consequences) of modern technological advancements in how we are socializing. First, the wonderful ability to take a few risks and put ourselves out there so much more fearlessly (at least on a preliminary basis) are so much…[Read more]
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James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.
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But of course…what better way to build off of something than to use what has already been established!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”
Umph!…
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I loved that thought too.
And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
I like this quote…
What do you think of the bridge I have been building?
It is coming along nicely, don’t you think?
Big, strong, stable…made to handle more than one person at a time if desired and capable of withstanding even the most intense sexual storms
You just let me know if you would ever like to get a better look at the workmanship…[Read more]
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I hope you will catch up and find time to look at the bridge I posted!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment. It is absolutely the truth that love and desire do evolve profoundly over time and with familiarity and that the duties increase as well and often seem to become a burden (and sometimes a crushing one)!
But that is really where I have struggled most in my own life…that is what has frustrated me the…[Read more]
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There is so much here that I would love to respond directly to, but I will just say relative to what you wrote, I do think you are on to a profound point. One that is very counter to conventional thinking ( and we all know how successful that is).
I think love and desire are fundamental aspects of our being and biology. I think in their native…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Mmmm…
I suspected you would be dizzy…that’s probably the best sign yet!
I cant think if a better way for us to become acquainted…can you?
PS: My friend would NEVER find out…a treasure such as yourself would be worth protecting and you would definitely be under my protection from that moment forward!
Not only that, I expect that with…[Read more]
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Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”
Umph!…
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I loved that thought too.
And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Really?!? That’s funny…I spent the last two days imagining your hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while your other hand was pulling my cock into your mouth also!
In fact, the only real difference was that her mouth was buried deeply between your legs and her hands were playing with my balls and toying with my…[Read more]-
I can’t say I don’t agree… Though I would say I don’t so much like to handle pressure as I like to relieve pressure… Mallory how fast can you get here?
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Oh my goodness! I just got here. Wow I really suck.
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What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
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Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!
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Alix James commented on the post, Mona’s Sexy Suntan Experiment 12 years, 3 months ago
Thank goodness for this…I was missing Mona more than I realized until I saw this…
Plus, I love the “twist” of another woman who is actually interacting with a true secret admirer. Can’t wait to read her response…
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months agoAs a follow-up to lakes TRUTH: Unique/Quirky Turn Ons question…
Mallory suggested nice sheets to which I suggested 100% linen being the absolute best! Well, here are my rumpled 100% linen sheets for all of you to contemplate! I posted a picture with me in them over in the Photo Orgy group!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Well said. I think that you actually have captured the true meaning of acceptance as I was suggesting.
Accepting others in general is not so difficult in school or at work or with a friend or family member you see on rare occasions, but with a partner, in a day to day relationship, over years if not decades?!?
Holy hell…actually…[Read more]
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As someone who knows myself… that is a lot of acceptance! I do hope you don’t embarrass easily… Oh, wait, scratch that, we all already know that you don’t!
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Well, I can say that despite considerably efforts in this regards, I have not yet been able to rise above the point of becoming embarrassed entirely (or feeling shame or being humiliated for that matter), but I have become better able to place all of that in context! That stems from really working to accept oneself and, when pushed closer to the…[Read more]
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
I assure you THAT feeling is mutual! Is there a plural version of mutual…I wouldn\’t want to somehow exclude lake from that sentiment! It feels nice to be back
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Yes, yes do NOT exclude lake… you are not the only one with those concerns, I just spent two days imagining one hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while the other pulls your cock into my mouth… I know a bit about pressure.
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Really?!? That’s funny…I spent the last two days imagining your hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while your other hand was pulling my cock into your mouth also!
In fact, the only real difference was that her mouth was buried deeply between your legs and her hands were playing with my balls and toying with my…[Read more]-
I can’t say I don’t agree… Though I would say I don’t so much like to handle pressure as I like to relieve pressure… Mallory how fast can you get here?
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Oh my goodness! I just got here. Wow I really suck.
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What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
-James-
Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 3 months agoThis “Fantasy” was a result of Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
If you haven’t signed up to the group, you will certainly get the picture, although I much prefer to see her version rendered in the flesh (or at least pixels!)…well…for now!!!My first thought when I saw you posed like that was…”what if some…[Read more]
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Holy shit… I am speechless. I have to tell you that really messed with my head… But I suspect that will come as no surprise.
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The real fun twist with this, is all the explicit dialogue (internal or otherwise) around not wanting to loose control, when it is so clear that the truth is the opposite. It is a fabulous metaphor for the conundrum of human sexuality in our culture.
Aren’t we all begging, yearning, craven for the opposite? To be that free primal sexual…[Read more]
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I’m dizzy from your fantasy and flattered you got SO VERY inspired, James.
Just how did I end up here, bent over, and ready to show you all of me? I’m going to let you have me, use me however you like because you are going to somehow, in your gentlemanly and cavemanly way, let your best friend know what the possibilities are down my erotic and…[Read more]
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Mmmm…
I suspected you would be dizzy…that’s probably the best sign yet!
I cant think if a better way for us to become acquainted…can you?
PS: My friend would NEVER find out…a treasure such as yourself would be worth protecting and you would definitely be under my protection from that moment forward!
Not only that, I expect that with…[Read more]
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Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”
Umph!…
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I loved that thought too.
And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Mmmm…
I’ve long believed that you and lake together would come about as close to “perfection” as I could imagine.
All I have to figure out now is whether this is a tease or an offer?
Also, I would like to point out that inserting myself between you two lovelies in all the ways I am imagining has slightly more to do with my libido than my…[Read more]
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Oh James, how you have been missed!
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I assure you THAT feeling is mutual! Is there a plural version of mutual…I wouldn’t want to somehow exclude lake from that sentiment! It feels nice to be back
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Yes, yes do NOT exclude lake… you are not the only one with those concerns, I just spent two days imagining one hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while the other pulls your cock into my mouth… I know a bit about pressure.
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Really?!? That’s funny…I spent the last two days imagining your hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while your other hand was pulling my cock into your mouth also!
In fact, the only real difference was that her mouth was buried deeply between your legs and her hands were playing with my balls and toying with my…[Read more]-
I can’t say I don’t agree… Though I would say I don’t so much like to handle pressure as I like to relieve pressure… Mallory how fast can you get here?
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Oh my goodness! I just got here. Wow I really suck.
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What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
-James-
Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!
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Alix James posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Well, I have to agree but disagree…
I agree with the importance of Trust and Communication above the others from your list.
But I think your list is lacking what I believe is THE most important part which allows people to not only have great communication but also to build trust….ACCEPTANCE!
If you can not accept yourself for who you are…[Read more]
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I certainly agree with you that acceptance is critical. lake’s list, I believe, is in no way meant to be finite. We should include acceptance, along with probably a bunch of others.
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Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!