You may have to keep reminding me that I am not eligible to volunteer for this!

I vote for lake volunteering and james demostrating long and hard.

My memory fails me some but I think lake did a Second Love? I agree with Luis, I think this calls for One, Three, Four if I am correct. Now we want the whole timeline but catching up to Fifth would do for starters. PLEASE PRETTY PLEASE!

Yes, the 6th is now my platonic (mostly) best friend. The 7th is my husband. The 8th is M.

How about just a few words to answer:

1. What caused First [Love] to end.
2. More than anything else, what did you love about Third.
3. How were you different as a lover with Fourth than with Fifth.
4. Why didn’t love survive with friendship with Sixth.

And I cannot begin to ask about 7th and 8th.

Hi,

I used to be an insecure wife, years ago, same as yours and, may I say, same as many more. Hubby helped me with lots of patience and his camera at hand. For a few years I have posed nude only for his eyes. Then I told him that his compliments are biased because, you know, he’s in love with me. After much consideration, I allowed him to…[Read more]

Agree with Barrister that we need more information to give you some suggestions. Give me some idea of what her daily routine might be. What makes her feel sexy?

I do a lot of this now, thanks for the reminder because all of us guys don’t do this stuff enough. What I’m looking for is experiments that I can send her from( Mr X)

I do a lot of this now, thanks for the reminder because all of us guys don’t do this stuff enough. What I’m looking for is experiments that I can send her from( Mr X)

Based on what you have said, and agreeing that more needs to be learned to be truly helpful in you request, it seems that to start, much of what she may need revolves around things that she can do and experience on her own. Things that don’t “push” her so much as make her feel comfortable in going into the private safe secure headspace to wander…[Read more]

You said you set up an “anonymous email and stuff” already. Start there. Email her, tell her you saw her at ________ and you want her to know she is simply stunning. Sign it “John.” That is it. See what she does. I think she will reply. THEN the fun begins.

First there has to be a foundation, some context for the engagement. So the content of your emails should provide that. In my opinion information that gives her a sense of who you are, why you’ve become her admirer, what you desire, all work well… Also what excites you about the interaction.

I agree with everyone here, it’s about catering it…[Read more]

These can be as short or as long as you like. Here are two that have come to mind for me.

This was more than ten years ago. The whole thing happened in less then a couple of minutes, but I still remember every moment of it in the most visceral way. I was out with a group of friends. We had all been drinking. We were walking from one bar to…[Read more]

I once asked for and received the tshirt from someone I’ve gotten to know a little bit, but have not met. When I sunk my face into it, I plunged into that chemistry. When I put on the tshirt, I soared.

Very sexy… I think you must be her office crush.

Thank god for that one, you made it super thrilling for all of us!

I was at a holiday party. It was the end of a great night, everyone is clearing out. The owner of the company hosting the party walks up to me and takes my hand. He says, ‘I’m not one to throw a lot of parties, but if I was, I’d invite you to all of them’.

I think you are definitely a member.

About 17 weeks ago or so, I had an encounter as mentioned in Lake’s post. I felt compelled to document my thoughts and feelings about the encounter but I’ve yet to express them to anyone. It was as if this was my own little secret that I happily kept to myself. I’ll spare all of the details as my thoughts just kept rambling on and on.

I spotted…[Read more]

Extra points for having just meet the person on the plane… I’ve needed the double blanket traveling with someone I’m in a relationship with, but never with someone I’ve just met… Fantasized about it many times though. You have definitely been holding out on us Luis!

Here is one that is not really sexy (sorry), but definitely was an overwhelming feeling and rush of unexpected emotion that I will not forget.

I was with my team about an hour before a large presentation, we were testing, setting up, etc. I misplaced one of my folders and had become very frustrated with my inability to find it and had given up…[Read more]

What is the saying, ‘ In the end what we regret most is all the things we didn’t do’?

Having seen your picture… this doesn’t surprise me 🙂

A while back, I had hired someone to provide expert opinion in a litigation. He was extremely well spoken, articulated his points with an incredible level of expertise and he conveyed his message with a great deal of passion. He remained calm, passionate, and factual under cross examination. We did not share any special “moments,” but I could…[Read more]

Oh man. You’re hitting some fantasies hard, Mal. Keep going. You’re good. And still loving this short format.

Hot!… The twist with the hood being on him, is really messing with my mind, you are always so creative, you catch me off guard and make me rethink things all the time… I love that.

I just want to feel that moment when she walks in the door and he hits her in that mood over and over and over.

Okay so I’m freak, but do try to also remember that you love me when you read this. Plus it’s not totally my fault, James did ask for a fantasy that is ‘out there’.

So slight preamble. I believe at our core we are all light, love, and energy… infinite capacity without bounds and connected to everything. That upon that we are layer upon laye…[Read more]

If you walk up to a woman that you’ve been making eye contact with in a bar, simply take her hand and walk to the dance floor, slither against each other and under each other’s clothes for an hour, then take her hand again, walk her this time to the bathroom where you fuck her, and all of that without ever saying more than two words to each…[Read more]

1. The No List: humiliation, real pain
2. ISTJ
3. Total number of lovers: 6
4. Commitment weary

1. I once screwed up a date with a supermodel, by going to the wrong meeting place.
2. I’ve been shot with a BB gun more times than you have fingers.
3. I was a straight A student and a virgin when I entered college.
4. I minored in bible.
5. My mother once beat me in an archery tournament, and I’m still mad about it writing this.
6. I was a live…[Read more]

Okay, how long do we wait to reveal the real answers Mallory, I am very curious. Maybe we should only tell the real answers in private to the people who post so that there are some stakes…