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Your Experiments 12 years, 10 months agoMaster in his suit and coat whispers, “Take care of me slave” and closes his eyes. I am nude and we are both standing. I am drowning in a thousand emotions. ‘BREATHE’, I have to remind myself as my hands gingerly slip under his coat. It’s heavy and I cringe when the hangers clatter as I reach in to pull one out.
Looking at him, studying…[Read more]
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lake posted an update 12 years, 10 months ago
Alright, I want to borrow from your collective imaginations.
Let’s say you are owned, you are married, and you are interviewing a male submissive because your Master is interested in exploring some of the ‘opportunities’ that such a person might offer for your play and exploration. You have never had a male submissive before.1. In order to ge…[Read more]
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I know next to nothing on this subject but I can comment on how to get to know someone better. I have a few suggestions for starting points in the following order.
1. Have him respond in writing to the questions of “What draws you to being a submissive and what is in it for you.” You are here like many of us on SE because you care about the…[Read more]-
Food for thought indeed. Thank you Mallory, number 4 makes me wish it was time to head out the door right now!
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Just for clarity is this for YOU, or for your Master, or Both? I actually like all of Mallory’s suggestions, but regardless of the setting, #1 and #3 strike me as the most relevant parts.
If you are both going into this knowing what your dynamic is going to be – or it sounds like in this instance NEEDS to be if you are going to be satisfying…[Read more]
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That is more than helpful. It actually causes me to ‘re-think’ more than a few things.
I like to connect, and my instinct is to just do whatever is needed to get everyone there. For example if I’ve given 40% and someone else has given 40%, I am quick to give the extra 20% and never look back just to close the gap. This is not a bad thing, but…[Read more]
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It is much more difficult to assess “tending to,” which for me, is based on an underlying spirit of generosity. When I tend to my lover’s desire and pleasure, I feel like I would do anything to achieve them. Do anything, give anything, be anything. And I do so with my own hands, both of them, with self awareness of value, and anticipation of his…[Read more]
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Well said Mallory! I appreciate all of your more aggressive/assertive/alternative/provocative thoughts and expressions equally well, but it is knowing that at your core you possess both the capacity, the knowledge and the will to become THIS person – that all of your willingness to pursue any and all avenues of sexual expression are based on THIS…[Read more]
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I think that you understood my points (and Mallory’s) quite well, what I want to make sure that I followed up on was the notion that you do NOT have to be some cold heartless, relentlessly selfish bitch – some porn version of a dominatrix constantly belittling and humiliating her slave for seemingly pointless reasons. To me it always feels like…[Read more]
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Your not going to stop there now are you? 😉
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Ha! You caught me I am shy about that… Perhaps we need a week where everyone has to show or share something they never have here before.
and oh yes, I MUST know 😉
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lake posted an update 12 years, 10 months ago
“All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed.
For after all, he was only human. He wasn’t a dog.” ― Charles M. Schulz -
lake likes luis‘s activity 12 years, 10 months ago
Men’s Lust. Folks any doubt about your selection?
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CYA – Ass, Beads, Hand unseen
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CYA – Ass, Beads, Hand unseen
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lake posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 12 years, 10 months agoMy Belated xoxoxox’s
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I had the hardest time deciding which picture this week, went back and forth all week and ended up here… CYA – Skin, Legs, Shadows
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Thank You MrT, I really do appreciate it. I was nervous about trying to pen this at all, so the feedback feels good… and I would say; he is a very inspired and inspiring man 🙂
He is fortunate indeed! To have a slave capable of being so unflinchingly present, so skillfully driven, with such a relentless single minded focus on HIS pleasure. This reminds me of my (admittedly limited but highly rewarding) experiences with tantra, where two people are able to become so thoroughly connected – their souls literally…[Read more]
This is an excellent example of what I meant by “tending to,” a remarkable demonstration of generosity, in addition to affection and desire.
Tantra is always on my list of things to learn more ‘officially’ about. I have organically picked up a few techniques over time, and I very much buy-in to the underlying premises. I believe elements of tantra (or at least something similar) are to some degree already parts of some of my experiences, but at the same time know that there is alw…[Read more]