“hammering of heart beats and heaving of labored breathes” indeed, you have ratcheted up the emotion to a truly torturous level. Merciless tension makes me squirm.

I love how you’ve made this a completely erotic ride and all she did was go to the airport :). Really liked this, it conveyed the fun and flirt, and spirit.

Going… Going… Gone 🙂

What an interesting voice on her.

Knickers are definitely overrated!

From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]

For what I always want, another place in the world to be 🙂

Relationally… to share to learn to experiment, to care, to provoke, to witness, to laugh, to be excited, and from there we’ll see what’s possible.

Physically… definitely crazy, wild, safe, connected, sensual, real, exploratory, debauchery with some fine, young flesh.

But I’m an optimist 🙂

Ooo yippee yi yea!

Oooo la la… Pleas say your going to tell us more. What did you do? How did you feel? What surprised you about it? What was fun about the sharing afterward? What made you decide to go for it? Where you craving a steak afterward? 😉

I’d say don’t worry about the bi thing, I think with most things it is better not to force it, it will be…[Read more]

The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)

Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other…[Read more]

The Makings of the next date night?

I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great…[Read more]

I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE

I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to…[Read more]

I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE

When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)

I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on…[Read more]

Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
Sex is made h…[Read more]

I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is n…[Read more]

I have tried to think about how to answer this in the simplest way and it is so situationally different, I just can’t. Take for example a question like this: are you looking for a one off anonymous romp with essentially a human sex toy or looking to incorporate this person emotionally, sexually, and functionally long-term into your relationship?…[Read more]