I certainly agree with Luis that would be ideal, perfect.

I don’t have an answer to this one. Depends on the point in time, for which do I hurt and long more.

I know I have to have both, and more, there are certain things if we settle for not having, the price is too high. The question then becomes… Can you get them all from one person? For how long? What are the viable alternatives if you can’t create them all with one person forever, and you choose not to forfeit having them all. I would add…[Read more]

Posing nude is not easy but it is easier than revealing something about myself.

Personally, a private revelation is equally hard, if not even harder.

I’d pick revealing something significant every time. Private or not. I love the the process, and the results of sharing with people in this way… And I am stillinhibit about nudity.

Sex with moments 🙂

I want the rarer of the two “choices.” I want that heart stopping moment.

Not even a contest for me: partner’s best friend. Is it really possible to rather fuck a best friend? (Of course I’m assuming we’re talking categories rather than actual people.)

Me too. Rather fuck partner’s best friend.

I could go either way with this choice. The deciding factor would be where my partner was on the whole thing. If there was a chance of them being hurt or confused, I’d stick with my own best friend.

between my female best friend and my wife’s best friend it is a difficult choice, but I guess my wife’s best friend so as not to ruin my female best friend’s friendship

Ha, good one

And do tell, who was the forbidden fruit?

“……….But I loved you and I wanted to know and I wanted to be with you. I thought it might even be just this one time. I started to have all kinds of doubts. I don’t remember what they were. I was afraid I might not recognize you to find you. But when I saw you, I knew it was you. I didn’t want to stare too much. I remembering walking…[Read more]

….He got up, walked around the barrier of desk. He stood behind the chair I was sitting. Then he bent his head, I felt him at my profile. I turned to look up at him. And he kissed me. Soft and strong…his mouth was so soft, but he left me no doubt of the force underlying the tenderness. Lips parted, he entered me with his tongue, and I, into h…[Read more]

I turned and tippy-toed up to say it was great to meet, to give him a polite kiss on the cheek, to bid him good night.
“No,” he said, “on the mouth, right here, right in front of the whole world.”
And I knew then I wanted in, at least a little bit, into his whole world.

Before anything else, she reached and took my hand into hers. She asked if that was okay. Yes. And we walked holding hands. Did I make the next first move? Maybe I did, I was inpatient and I think I am the more patient one. Kissing her filled my senses with the erotic sounds of her whimpers and intense trembling of her skin. I just wanted to…[Read more]

I was a complete nerd when it came to dating. My first kiss was with a boy from my church, that my mom set me up with senior year. I had never been on a date, to a dance, asked out by a boy, didn’t wear makeup, barely ever even wore a dress… none of it. I was a nervous wreck. He tried to hold my hand at several points during the evening. I…[Read more]

Mallory, fabulous question, these are all so charming to read. I want more people to share more first kisses!

Cup me with your hand
Palpate
Wrap your arm around me
Implode or explode
Both

At the moment I have an enchantment with this movie, ‘the book of life’, so I’ve made my valentines’ day card from the cutting and pasting lyrics from some of the songs in the movie.

Live life like its a song
So turn it on and sing along
It’s alright if it goes wrong
Just keep calm and carry on

I’ll stand by you even when we fall
Now matter…[Read more]

Getting close to you
Closer and closer
Insanity
Yes closest thing to crazy
In too deep
How can wrong be so joyous

I am pretty sure, ‘in too deep’ is the story of my life… so makes me smile 😀

When you can come inside my head, you own me.

Ha, that was fabulous! It felt like a ride, you had my pointed attention at tight asses and cupped genitals (the ones that later got licked, mmmmm), and I then by the next few lines, I was thoroughly caught up.

I haven’t thought a lot about the predator aspect, but I have thought about it in regards to kink. I do agree with you, it is far to ‘easy’ to generalize and offer a pat answer.

Relative to the kink side, a friend wrote of it this way to me once. I am pasting his words;

“…we are animals who want to be free, but are born into a world of…[Read more]

#51 From out of the blue, tell him/her
“Don’t even think about making love later.”
“Why not?”
“I don’t want to make love.”
“What’s wrong?”
“Nothing. I just don’t want it.”
“What do you want?”
“I want to…… FUCK.”

52. Masturbate in plain sight.

54) go shopping at a regular store and find items that could be used during sex… Example – while grocery shopping, check out the cucumbers and zucchinis

55) still on the shopping angle – go and try on new threads – a nice dress shirt and tie for him, perhaps a sexy dress for her. flash each other while changing – or if apart – send pictures to each other

56. No panties, sitting across him, uncrossing my legs so he can see my pussy. Then nonchalantly getting up and heading towards the bedroom

57. Reading other people posts regarding Mr. X foreplay challenge

58. Watching her bade herself

59. Cooking a meal for him/her and then serving it wearing nothing but apron

60. Get into his/her calendar and input: “Sex @8pm” then set the alarm to go off early with enough time to go nuts, and get to the event.

62. In public: I brought my fingers up to his nose–my fingers were saturated with my scent.

63. Open a Google Drive or DropBox folder to share erotic photos with a small group of intimates.

65. Get out the camera — together.

66. Haiku Poetry
About desire and lust —
Juices are flowing.

67. Take an elevator ride in a tall building. See:

http://www.thesexexperiment.com/members/mal8899/activity/favorites/

Rent a room at the Standard Hotel (or similar structure) where people on the street can watch you.

http://bentandvice.blogspot.com/2009/12/letter-from-management-at-our-hotel.html?zx=d7d49ee9e7688fe4

70. Plant an item in his/her briefcase with a note, “you are going to need this later.”

72. This morning I sent an email to him that read. “I really really need a cock between my legs.” Not saying its poetic, but where things went from there… omg, glorious!

73. Up your foreplay through her pressure points:

“Location: This spot is found in the crease on the thick tendons where her legs join her abdomen near her hipbone.

How to stimulate the area: This area may be highly ticklish, so lean into these tendons gradually with the heel of your hand and apply pressure for 30 seconds to a minute. This spot…[Read more]

74. If we’re doing spots, rub, scratch! lick, kiss, and\or bite me at the very top of the split between my cheeks…

Casually, from behind the top of my jeans even, and it is very difficult for me to maintain propriety.

YUM

76. Sexy Desserts
Fig Tart With Custard, Crystallized Ginger and Almonds
http://zesterdaily.com/cooking/fig-tart-with-custard-and-crystallized-ginger-and-almonds/

77. Sexy Desserts
Pumpkin Creme Brulee
Crème brûlée is one of the sexiest desserts. You know that tap-tap moment, when the caramelized crust shatters, and you dip into the silky, luscious, creamy custard. And I don’t have to tell you about men and the scent of pumpkin.

I love that.

Yes, that’s the way to do it.

81. Go on a First Date. If you are married to each other, take off your wedding rings if you wear them.

82. Notice something important that no one else has.

85. Go shopping for shoes, wearing a short skirt, perhaps no panties. Be sure to try on many pairs of shoes requiring his assistance at your feet and his gaze up your…. eyes.

Love that and done that! All started with a red dress.

I think you should be in charge of hotel selection. This one would certainly put me in the mood.

Especially hot if the audience is formally dressed.

#89 Spend a lovely long week-end at a Nudist Camp, getting to top up the tan …. can’t wait ….

I love the way you think.

Why thank you!

92. Go to his office after lunch and deliver in person, a well-seasoned cigar, carefully preserved inside a plain white envelope.

I know you are talking bikinis here, Luis. And I’ve work really hard to have my own credit card, but there is something really hot about a man handing over his.

Well, we all know I’m pretty naughty. But if you are bringing up relevance to BDSM, then I submit to you the question of whose submission. The one handing over the credit card? Or the one accepting it?

95. Honey Do List
Print this list out and bring it to the fancy cosmetic store before you come home. I need:
1) Nars highlighter, The Multiple in Orgasm
2) Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Lolita or Underage Red
3) Cheeky Monkey nail polish in Make Me Moist

I actually think most men would refuse to do this? Might make them squirm? Um, I should do a survey here on this question.

#ONE HUNDRED!!!!
During the course of a long day, or over days, or weeks, or months, continuous, back and forth exchanges of long and/or short banter, of flirtatious, funny, biting, and/or adversarial nature, with escalating heat.

It is funny, in NYC you are more likely to randomly see someone fucking out in the open in public (say in the bathroom at a club or an dark entryway out on the street , or in the middle of a concert – totally random places) than you are to actually hear or see someone – especially your neighbors -fucking.

On the one hand, props to those who…[Read more]