Luis-
I think you have touched on something with your comment, but I would like to give it a slightly different spin…what I would like to believe is a responsible “dominant mans” view of pushing Nicole to meet Rachel. Apologies in advance to @Mal8899 for attempting to deconstruct her beautiful story in a way that may be less than tittilating,…[Read more]

Fair enough…you are absolutely correct. I guess the honesty partcomes into play when trying to MANAGE how to pursue those…well…primary…motivations!

See…I knew that my trying to analyze this story would miss a few marks…I guess the central question I would have for you Luis is about the differences in social attitudes and mores in…[Read more]

Well, the term “sexual colonialism” is just something I made up, so the fact that you had no idea what it meant has nothing to do with any language barrier, but I think that the rest of your response is very helpful in illustrating the concept that I was trying to put forth in using that term. Follow the heart and override oneself is an…[Read more]

@luis and @A.James, may I ask you gentlemen to use the Comment button instead Reply at this point because the truncated format is getting too difficult to read.

It occurs to me that when we watch movies we often do cheer for exactly this Luis, that the leads ‘should follow their hearts and mortify’. In movies we value and demand romance and courage, expression and passion.

But in real life, so often don’t we do the opposite? Value and encourage being in line, doing what is expected. Building…[Read more]

@alix-james, @luis, @lake : okay I will try to give everyone what they want.

I think what we want most is just for you to not to stop!! 🙂 Whichever way you go, I’m confident it will grip, and squeeze, tease, and please one way or another as it always does.

The subtle building tension for me in this one has me holding my breath. It feels like those moments in the theatre when you know something big is about to…[Read more]

Perhaps trust (
1.reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
2.confident expectation of something; hope.)

@luis you are too funny!

I have a feeling I know what the feeling was that Luis was feeling 🙂

I’m not sure I can handle all this pressure!

What do you want to be next?

I’m still sitting here picturing Nicole, naked wrapped in a towel with freshly stained lips on one of the benches at the locker room at the gym… Just within reach…

OMG and now I’m picturing me in the office, it’s been one of those days, it’s ten I’m still there, I never got out for lunch, have had maybe a handful of almonds all day… and she’s on my lap feeding me peekytoe crab, and its savory and warm and it starts to restore my being I am starting to feel like a human being again and I’m pissed I’ve spent…[Read more]