First and foremost, it is contextual. Its about control and one person has to want to have it and the other has to want to give it…how much and how far to take that “power dynamic” is totally open to negotiation/circumstance/nature and how enjoyable it therefore can be, totally depends. If the Dominance/submission gene exists sexually, between…[Read more]

This is a fascinating development, and I’ve really enjoyed following your adventures over the past months. I’m afraid this one’s out of my circle of knowledge, but I really hope some other readers will comment with their opinions/advice. Good luck!

Mmmm…thoughtful, measured, BDSM…sounds like a tremendous idea. Lots of fun can be had with this new aspect, and it sounds like a very promising twist on your already very liberating relationship! There is nothing more rewarding for me than connecting with someone else on a level that allows such wants and desires not only to be expressed…[Read more]

In case I wasn’t perfectly clear in my original post, I am no sadist. I am a lover not a fighter and I don’t totally get the pain thing – maybe I have just never really had the desire or willingness to go there or a partner able to expertly wield the whip – but I do know for certain that everyones reactions to pain are different. Not knowing you…[Read more]

I haven’t read this, nor do I think I will, but I’m curious to see people’s reactions to the “phenomenon” and have created a new group – Erotic Books – and a new forum – Fifty Shades of Grey – here: http://www.thesexexperiment.com/groups/erotic-books/forum/topic/fifty-shades-of-grey/

Hated it? Loved it? You can post everything in the forum, send…[Read more]

How about a photoshoot; but not just any type of photoshoot – a sexy photoshoot (rather obvious, considering where we are). Let me set the scene for you:

You both plan it ahead of time. You (or you and him) pick out a few outfits that are a little more sexy than you usually wear, but still decent for public viewing. Maybe some more skin, maybe…[Read more]

In a past relationship, on a dare we went to not-on-premises swingers club. We did not connect with others there or want to. We wanted the sexual tension in the room and to be in our own bubble. If you want to be left alone, you will be as swingers are very polite. In my present relationship, my very straight lady and I have gone to the clubs and…[Read more]

What a truly fantastic story! I hope others will read it and enjoy as much as I did. I’m fascinated by so much about this – the women, obviously, but also the “no sex on premises” rule and the niche thus filled by the limo driver (what a job, and what stories he must have had!). Anyway, yes, a once-in-a-lifetime night. Love it! Thanks.

Wow, that certainly would be a night to remember. As cliche as it might be, I firmly believe that many a couple lose the ability to keep their hands off one another when they are in the backseat instead of behind the wheel themselves despite their “audience” and the stories that cab drivers/limo drivers could tell are probably *very* interesting.

I haven’t really tried to tackle any of the experiments you’ve given Mrs. X, Mona, or the others, but your latest to Mona, to orgasm at a party, has certainly caught my attention. I think that may be the first one I finally try.

I’ve read this five times – “made me come with his mouth on my neck” – and I don’t know whether I’m more impressed by his mouth or your neck. It must be very exciting to be so sensitive.