Stressing about that kind of thing for your first time, will kill any enjoyment you will get from the experience. You always remember your first time, and if it was a horror story, you set yourself up for failure for a long time to come. I’ve had guys that were done before they even got in, I’ve had guys go for three hours and still not be done.…[Read more]

Love this description. I’m vividly picturing you buzzing down the aisles of the supermarket like a horny bumblebee and will be very eager to see where that Magic Bus(driver) might take you. Well done.

Thank you for sharing this… The part that I always find amazing is the notion that ones sexuality is such a real thing and there are endless ways that it can be expressed (both in real life and through fantasy). It is courageous to put yourself out there and admit how you are sexual and hopefully you will find it empowering to know that there…[Read more]

Ha! Yes, I’ll be quite pleased if the sext dare is to “do X” to someone. I’ll go ahead and start making preparations. I really like the idea of speaking/writing/sexting past your “comfort zone”, and I’ll be eager to hear what you and hopefully others devise.

So I will go first…oh, wait, no one else but Mr. X seems to have even seen this…so let me kick this off by sharing my Sext…AND…to prove my point, I already have the privilege of being able to share with you the result!!! (which I will admit even I am astounded to be able to say).

First, I do have to set this up a little bit…no there…[Read more]

And the results…

First things first…Yes, she really did take a picture of her pussy while she was sitting at her desk and send it to me. Yes is did look exactly as I described in my text. No, she has never ever done anything anywhere near that daring or salacious much less sent it to me during the work day, so I knew whatever I had said,…[Read more]

First and foremost, it is contextual. Its about control and one person has to want to have it and the other has to want to give it…how much and how far to take that “power dynamic” is totally open to negotiation/circumstance/nature and how enjoyable it therefore can be, totally depends. If the Dominance/submission gene exists sexually, between…[Read more]

Yum. You can change your name as many times as you like if we get a new photo every time! Very nice to have you and your limitless perversiona back around, FS/L , and also very nice to have you half naked.

This is a fascinating development, and I’ve really enjoyed following your adventures over the past months. I’m afraid this one’s out of my circle of knowledge, but I really hope some other readers will comment with their opinions/advice. Good luck!

Mmmm…thoughtful, measured, BDSM…sounds like a tremendous idea. Lots of fun can be had with this new aspect, and it sounds like a very promising twist on your already very liberating relationship! There is nothing more rewarding for me than connecting with someone else on a level that allows such wants and desires not only to be expressed…[Read more]

In case I wasn’t perfectly clear in my original post, I am no sadist. I am a lover not a fighter and I don’t totally get the pain thing – maybe I have just never really had the desire or willingness to go there or a partner able to expertly wield the whip – but I do know for certain that everyones reactions to pain are different. Not knowing you…[Read more]