Interesting thoughts, James, and a great experiment. I hope others will join in – there’s something incredibly erotic (and potentially transgressive) about expressing exactly what you want (though I will add that in my opinion sex is often not about finding what you think you want, but finding you want something that you could have never expected…[Read more]

I love the whole randomness of chance – and the thrill of the forbidden

Love this song too. Thanks for posting it.

I’ve just recently experienced this, and I must agree…there is nothing quite as exciting as playing with the right person like this.

I always heard that Hugh Hefner claims his most successful line is ”Hello, my name is Hugh Hefner.” I thought for a long time that the most important part of the sentance was ”Hefner.” I have decided that the most important part is ”Hello.”