One Eyed Willie

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    Score one for the millennials 🙂

  • lake posted an update 10 years, 12 months ago

    So is 20 years younger just too damn young?

    • Maybe. It depends. Too young for what?

    • Past 20, age is definitely a relative concept. As long as the attraction (physical or otherwise) and feelings are real and mutual and there aren’t any false pretenses, I say go for it!
      Now…The practical question as to advisability and whether it might prove worthwhile are different questions altogether. On those, I second Mallory…it…[Read more]

    • For what I always want, another place in the world to be 🙂

      Relationally… to share to learn to experiment, to care, to provoke, to witness, to laugh, to be excited, and from there we’ll see what’s possible.

      Physically… definitely crazy, wild, safe, connected, sensual, real, exploratory, debauchery with some fine, young flesh.

      But I’m an optimist 🙂

    • I say go for it. Always be an optimist but never lose caution..

    • Going… Going… Gone 🙂

  • Mrs. Kitty posted an update 11 years ago

    Cinco de Mayo… and a Hedo Event…. Oh My >;-)

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      The Makings of the next date night?

      • It was beyond anything I imagined would happen. The end result was three couples in the bed with five total couples in the room. I finally dabbled in one of my fantasies but still haven’t figured out how to fully unleash my inner bi-curiousities :-/

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Oooo la la… Pleas say your going to tell us more. What did you do? How did you feel? What surprised you about it? What was fun about the sharing afterward? What made you decide to go for it? Where you craving a steak afterward? 😉

      I’d say don’t worry about the bi thing, I think with most things it is better not to force it, it will be…[Read more]

    • Ooo yippee yi yea!

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    NEW GAME

    Ask a true or false question.
    Next person answers all previous questions then adds a question. So I’ll start the first two:

    1st: Dark Chocolate is better than Milk Chocolate
    2nd: True
    Kissing is Better than a Massage
    3rd: This should be you… Comment below

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      alright, I’ll go third too

      True
      True
      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE

      TRUE or FALSE: The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Oh wait! This one got skipped!

      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore – true or false?

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. True or False

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.

      Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is n…[Read more]

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
      Sex is made h…[Read more]

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE

      When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)

      I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on…[Read more]

      • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
        Kissing better than massage: FALSE
        I’d rather be in love than loved: FALSE
        The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE (I believe this has more to do with presuming that we really know each other well enough to stop trying to discover (or uncover) more and the complacency t…[Read more]

        • This is difficult, most of my answers would be “depends on the situation” except that’s clearly not an option so I’ll have to pick one.

          Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
          Kissing better than massage: FALSE
          I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
          The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
          People are finite,…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE

      I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to…[Read more]

    • I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. TRUE
      I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair which lasted for one summer, over a steady…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great…[Read more]

    • Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. FALSE
      The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. TRUE

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” True or false?

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other…[Read more]

  • Mrs. Kitty posted an update 11 years ago

    What would be a better option for a couple exploring their fantasies for the first time?
    FF husband watching (wife is very bi-curious).
    FFM husband participating.
    MMF (wife has never been with anyone but husband).
    MFMF (everyone playing with each other)

    • This is difficult to answer without first knowing what husband’s fantasy vs. wife’s fantasy vs. couple’s joint fantasy.

      If it is simply a couple’s joint fantasy to add another person(s) to their sex life, I think the first step might be FF (husband watching or not). Continuing on this same joint fantasy, I think you listed the options in…[Read more]

      • Do you think women would be more judgemental than a man would be (body wise)?

        • Yes, I do think women are “harder” on women because we are harder on ourselves and women have more body image issues than men.

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          I gotta think if your not comfortable enough with these people to not be body conscious, then you could be rushing things… Oh my God, is this really me being the wet blanket here…. Ah Miss Kitty you must have found a warm place in my heart I am being protective of you and your Willie

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          I had to write fast this morning, so I couldn’t pontificate… But now… Here it comes 🙂
          I get it we are all hard on ourselves. I’m not denying that. Heck I was just walking down the street, looked up and ten feet in front of me is this fantastic young woman with a light cotton tank and an incredible bouncing rack with hard nipples and tight…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      It really depends on the people, and how well everybody knows each other, and how aligned every persons goals and expectations are. If you’ve never done anything with another person, I’d approach it as a process. You take small steps, you see what comes up, understand the types of challenges that you weren’t expecting and work through those bit…[Read more]

      • lake replied 11 years ago

        FF can be less threatening, but it can also mean you defer real questions that are going to come up eventually. There really are so many assumptions I can see myself making to answer this. For it to fit, I think you should narrow it, and ask a more specific question, then I think we could really take it somewhere.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I have tried to think about how to answer this in the simplest way and it is so situationally different, I just can’t. Take for example a question like this: are you looking for a one off anonymous romp with essentially a human sex toy or looking to incorporate this person emotionally, sexually, and functionally long-term into your relationship?…[Read more]

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