PS, the supposed “source” of this (which I can no longer put my hands on) is a personal blog written by a “rock musician” and this is supposedly of a few of his groupies! Now there are all sorts of practical issues with fucking everything that moves, but who can seriously claim that they wouldn’t give a hell of a lot to have spent a couple of…[Read more]

You need to get a medical grade Wartenberg in stainless steel or chrome; they are not that expensive (under $20). Please properly disinfect by soaking in antibacterial soap with a little bleach, rinse, and running boiling water for final rinse. Store in clean ziplock bag.

For restraints, how about trying oblong scarfs? And since he is a bit of…[Read more]

You might also consider giving him a shave with a straight edge blade (see my post below).

I’ll throw my vote to rope as well, ultimately I believe it’s going to give you the broadest range of options (including burns or no burns 🙂 and inescapable) because of the different types of rope and because there are so many ways to keep expanding your repertoire.

And thanks for adding fuel to the fire, I have to think getting you to…[Read more]

I personally have zero interest in pain. To me the Wartenberg Wheel (along with an infinite list) represents sensuality in a couple of important dimensions: sense and fear of the unknown. Erotic fear of uncharted territories is a huge aphrodisiac. Imagine the pins of the wheel on the lower, outer quadrant of a breast, it gets close but never…[Read more]